A video of a man asking a woman about her sexual history on a first date has gone viral on TikTok, sparking debate in the comments section. The clip was posted by the account Not Joe (@notjoebonham) and has since gained 1.9 million views. In the video, the man can be seen sitting across a table from his date, who is filming the encounter.
The on-screen text reads, “FIRST DATE he tries to ask my body count 😩,” giving viewers context before the conversation begins. The man, who has light brown curly hair and a beard and is wearing a grey collared shirt, opens by saying, “Let me just be direct here.” He then asks, “How many people have you been with?”
