A woman says she was 'blinded by love' after her conman ex used his mum's cancer diagnosis to fleece her of more than £14,000. Umit Sucu told Alison Wood about his ill parent and said he needed money to send abroad for her treatment, a court heard.
But the former boxer - known as the 'Turkish Warrior' - used the cash to fund his lifestyle at home instead. Sucu, 44, was handed a suspended sentence last month and was told to pay back a total of £14,600.
But Alison, from Speedwell, Bristol, claims she is actually owed at least double that amount. She said of the ordeal: "I was blinded by what I thought was love, but now I see what he really is.
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"It's just a shame it took me as long as it did to figure it out." A court heard the pair started a relationship after meeting in a pub - where he was supposedly celebrating his divorce - in October 2018.
But Sucu soon became "pushy" about Alison's finances in the months that followed, it was said. And then, on a holiday in Tunisia, the former boxer said his mum, who lives at his family home in Turkey, had breast cancer.
He claimed he was struggling to access his bank account in Istanbul and proceeded to ask Alison for a string of payments to the tune of £13,600. She paid up, and also handed over a further £1,000 after Sucu said he needed to pay a fine.
But prosecutors at Bristol Crown Court said Sucu didn't send the money abroad - and actually used it to pay for "every day items such as loans and tickets." Project manager Alison, 51, said: "Looking back on it I think how could I have just believed him, but I loved him and wanted to do everything I could to help his situation.
"My mum died shorty after meeting him which made things worse. He targeted my dad as well as me as he knew we were vulnerable.
"He even helped us arrange the funeral, really cementing himself into our family dynamic. It got to the point where he was such a big part of my life, I never thought to question his intentions."
According to Alison, Sucu's lies began to unravel when she bumped into his ex-girlfriend a year into their relationship - who told her he was still married. She alleges that she then visited his wife's place of work, who he'd claimed to have divorced, and she confirmed that they were living together in a council house.
Alison claims: "I wanted to believe it wasn't true but it suddenly all started to make sense in my mind. He'd promised to pay me back from his inheritance which I found out didn't exist and at that point I contacted the police.
"The premises of our whole relationship was based on deception both financially and emotionally as he'd also been being unfaithful throughout our entire relationship. I have got horrendous anxiety and that all stems from what he's done.
"It has taken me a couple years at least to feel myself again, but forming personal relationships will now forever be a struggle." Sucu, of Hamble Close in Thornbury, was caught in October 2020, and pleaded guilty to two counts of fraud.
He was handed a two-year suspended sentence and 200 hours community service at Bristol Crown Court in July. The fraudster was also ordered to pay back £7,120 to Alison after the court accepted he had already refunded her £9,000 prior to sentencing.
But she says this is less than half of what she is actually owed - and the real figure is around the £35,000 mark. She said: "I'm still owed a lot more money, but because a lot of it was cash payments a lot of the transactions can't be traced.
"The sentence is extremely light for the pain and misery he's caused me and no doubt he'll do the same again to somebody else in the near future. I hope by sharing my story it will help bring him to justice further and warn women to stay away from him."
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