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Julia Banim

Woman concerned after neighbour becomes 'obsessed' with her sleeping patterns

Many of us will have had to contend with nosy neighbours at one time or another, but there are some who take things a step too far.

One woman has apparently found herself dealing with such a neighbour, who she says has become "obsessed" with her sleeping routine.

The unnamed woman says her anti-anxiety medication makes it difficult for her to enter into a deep sleep, so she doesn't always feel like getting up at the crack of dawn.

She's retired, with no dependents, and so doesn't really see the issue with having a relaxing lie-in.

However, her neighbour sees things differently and appears to keep a very close eye indeed on her bedroom window.

Her neighbour appears to be keeping track of her lie-ins (Stock Photo) (Getty Images)

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Taking to Mumsnet, the woman - who goes by the username Mississipi71 - "I have no blinds in my bedroom, just curtains, so she can see what time I wake up. I even heard her saying 'it is 11.30 am now, what time did she get up, 11.15?'

"I don't go into deep sleeps (side effects of anxiety meds) so I never really feel I have had a full night's sleep. I am early retired, with no kids so what time I get up is down to me. I just read in bed and don't play music or watch TV, until I finally drift off.

"She also has no idea whether I have reasons for sleeping patterns and I don't need to justify anything to her."

Many fellow Mumsnet users have sympathised with her situation, sharing their own tales of nosy parkers who've left them feeling uneasy.

One person commented: "Many years I visited family in a lovely village in the Welsh valleys. My aunt lived in a traditional terraced house and there was a huge competition over who had their line of washing out first.

"My mother was intrigued by it all, what a bizarre thing to be competitive about."

Another shared: "This is a few years ago - but one of my friends got married and they bought a house near her mum If her mum thought she wasn't up early enough at the weekend to do her housework she'd ring her or go round! They obviously moved!

"If I were you I'd start leaving your curtains closed all the time. I can't believe that anyone would be concerned about what time you get up! She really needs to find something else to do!"

Have you found yourself dealing with a neighbour from hell? Email us at julia.banim@reachplc.com

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