There are many factors that dictate how a family manages its finances. One might have multiple incomes and be saving for a house, while another could be struggling with employment and focusing on paying off debt. The key is that everyone understand the situation and act in the household’s best interest. Or at the very least, they don’t sabotage each other.
However, as a recent story from the parenting forum Mumsnet shows, that’s not always the case. Last week, a user who goes by Marzipanface shared an emotional post, explaining why her husband’s actions around money have started to feel controlling and borderline manipulative. She asked people if they agreed or if they thought she was just being unreasonable.