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Aishwarya Kapoor

Why You Keep Competing in Relationships When You Were Always Second in Your Parents' Eyes

You Were Ranked Before You Knew What Ranking Meant

It didn't have to be said out loud. You knew. You knew from the way your mother's face changed when your sibling walked into the room. From the story your father told at every family gathering, the one that was never about you. From the prize that got framed on the wall and the one that got a nod and a "good, good" before the conversation moved on.

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