The comedian recalls how his demanding schedule, frequent travel and an uncomfortable exchange with a former girlfriend exposed problems with his approach to relationships.
Trevor Noah recalls his therapist calling him 'undateable' in a stand-up routine from his Netflix special Joy in the Trenches. A clip titled My Therapist Said I'm Undateable. My Ex Proved It. appeared on his official YouTube channel on 12 May 2026. In the routine, the comedian recounts how a conversation with a former girlfriend highlighted what he says were problems with his approach to relationships.