We grow up believing that hugs are the purest form of love. When we are happy, sad, excited, or overwhelmed, our arms instinctively reach out. So when a pet enters our life, that same instinct follows. We pull them close, wrap our arms around them, and squeeze with affection. To us, it feels natural and warm. To many pets, it feels confusing, intense, and sometimes frightening. This does not mean your pet does not love you. It means your pet loves you in a different language. Understanding that language can transform your relationship from affectionate to deeply respectful and emotionally safe.
