At the heart of Sally Rooney's novel "Conversations with Friends" and the new BBC adaptation of it, is an affair between young writer Frances and an older, married actor, Nick. Before they sleep together for the first time, Frances tells Nick that she doesn't want to be "a homewrecker." Nick responds that his marriage has "survived several affairs already." It becomes clear as the story progresses that Nick has no intention of leaving his wife, Melissa, despite both of their infidelities.
The novel was described by The New Yorker as "a new kind of adultery novel" and BBC Three's marketing of the series has emphasised the "very unconventional and modern" relationship dynamics at its centre. The questions that the story asks about marriage, intimacy and fidelity are not new but reflect changing understandings of adultery over the last century.
