Get all your news in one place.
100's of premium titles.
One app.
Start reading
The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Politics

Why are women who don’t have children an easy target?

Happy woman  with beagle dog on winter walk path
‘Blanket criticism of all women who don’t have the benefit of children is hurtful and harmful.’ Photograph: olaser/Getty Images

Thank you, Nesrine Malik, for your article (The right’s obsession with childless women isn’t just about ideology: it’s essential to the capitalist machine, 2 September). I have two points to add. First, some gentle sensitivity from people would help women to come to terms with their infertility. It is often not a choice. Blanket criticism of all women who don’t have the benefit of children is hurtful and harmful. Second, why do men not get the same level of intolerance if they choose not to procreate? Or, indeed, are themselves infertile?
Catherine Colvin
Watton, Norfolk

• Nesrine Malik makes many good points, of course, but she oversimplifies by stating that “a woman who does not bear children … is less likely to extend her caregiving to elderly relatives”. Much depends on the nature of individuals’ work and the geographic spread of a family, but sometimes the childless/free are seen as, and may genuinely be, more easily available. As the childless one of three adult siblings, I took the greater share of care commitments for our elderly mother in her later years.

Sign up to read this article
Read news from 100's of titles, curated specifically for you.
Already a member? Sign in here
Related Stories
Top stories on inkl right now
One subscription that gives you access to news from hundreds of sites
Already a member? Sign in here
Our Picks
Fourteen days free
Download the app
One app. One membership.
100+ trusted global sources.