
Grandparents can be a source of love, wisdom, and support—but they can also be a source of stress when their parenting tips feel more like parenting critiques. You might find yourself biting your tongue when they suggest giving a baby cereal at three months or insist that “a little spanking never hurt anyone.” While their advice is often rooted in love and experience, it doesn’t always align with today’s parenting values. Navigating those differences can be tricky, especially when you’re trying to maintain family harmony. Here’s how to handle it when grandparents’ parenting advice doesn’t quite match your own.