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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
As told to Claire Cohen

We had an ordinary marriage. Then I found out my husband had been viewing images of child abuse

Illustration of a woman and man stood on a laptop with the man looking at the screen and the woman with her head in her hands

‘When he wouldn’t make eye contact, I knew’

Emily, 35
In the 15 years I’ve been with my husband, Matthew, I never imagined opening the front door to the police. As far as I was concerned, we had an ordinary marriage – we met at university, went travelling after graduation and returned home to build our careers. I trained in safeguarding, while he studied to be an engineer. I thought we were so lucky. Ours was a comfortable, middle-class life in an affluent English market town in the south – we enjoyed holidays and had a busy social life, with lots of friends. I’m a bit of an introvert, but my husband’s more popular – the sort who goes out of his way to help other people who might be struggling.

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