Usher, the talented singer and performer, has recently opened up about the unimaginable heartbreak he and his family have experienced. In an exclusive interview with PEOPLE magazine, Usher delves into the ups and downs of his life in the spotlight, sharing intimate details about his personal struggles and triumphs.
One of the most traumatic events in Usher's life occurred in 2012 when his ex-wife, Tameka Foster, received devastating news. Her son Kile, just 11 years old at the time and from her previous marriage, was involved in a tragic boating accident. Upon learning of the incident while Foster was in Italy, Usher swiftly arranged for her immediate return home, recognizing the immense distress she was going through. Despite their divorce in 2009 after two years of marriage, Usher felt compelled to be there for Foster during such a challenging time. 'Let me try and be of help to her and support her as much as I possibly can,' he recalls.
Losing a child is an indescribable pain that one can never truly understand until they experience it themselves. Usher acknowledges the profound impact the loss had on him, mentioning that Kile was an extraordinary child who left a lasting influence in his short time on Earth. His memory continues to be cherished by Usher, Foster, and their sons Usher V (16) and Naviyd (15). The family frequently reflects on Kile's life, never forgetting the joy he brought them.
Navigating a co-parenting relationship with an ex-spouse can be challenging, and Usher admits that he and Foster have their fair share of difficult days. The couple's already strained relationship faced further upheaval in 2013 when Usher V, then five years old, almost drowned in Usher's pool. Usher describes that day as one of the hardest in his life, recognizing the immense pain it caused Foster as well. The incident occurred in the midst of a lengthy custody battle, exacerbating tensions. However, a judge ultimately found no negligence on Usher's part, reassuring him of his commitment to his sons' safety. Usher emphasizes his love for his children and his unwavering dedication to their well-being.
Despite their past conflicts, Usher and Foster are now actively co-parenting their sons, working together to provide a stable and loving environment for them. Usher acknowledges that it is a process, and they encounter challenges along the way. However, their shared responsibility for their children takes precedence, and they strive to do their best for their sons' sake.
With vulnerability and candor, Usher's interview sheds light on the profound heartbreak he has experienced and his ongoing journey as a parent. It serves as a reminder that celebrities, just like regular individuals, face personal struggles and setbacks. Usher's unwavering dedication to his family and his ability to navigate difficult circumstances with empathy and love is an inspiration to many.
For more insights into Usher's life and loves, pick up this week's issue of PEOPLE, available on Friday.