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Sarah Lumley

The top 55 household arguments - from messy bedrooms to games night rows

Household arguments have come a long way since we all used to bicker over who had control of the TV remote, a study has revealed.

These days we are just as likely to clash over hogging the WiFi, sharing Amazon accounts, and disturbing those who are working from home.

The poll of 2,000 adults found the top 55 most common domestic rows also include what time children should come off games consoles, watching TV on someone else’s Netflix profile - and gadget use at the dinner table.

But age-old bad habits such as leaving toilet roll cores on the floor, not stacking the dishwasher and leaving lights on, still set off rows in homes up and down the UK.

Notably, given the current cost-of-living crisis, households also debate when the heating should come on.

And top of the list for all households is dirty washing left on the floor, closely followed by messy bedrooms and dirty plates left next to the dishwasher.

The top 55 household arguments include leaving wet towels on the floor and not making the bed. (Getty Images)

It also emerged the average household has a minimum of two arguments a day, with eight in 10 adults admitting they are usually trivial.

A spokesman for hygiene and health company Essity, which commissioned the study to launch Cushelle Tubeless toilet tissue, said: “What we’re seeing now is a new world of family tiffs, mainly driven by gadgets and technology, that are spoiling domestic heaven.

“However, some of the classic causes of household squabbles have certainly stood the test of time.

“And the bathroom remains one of the rooms where tensions seem to build up the most.

"At least if there’s no toilet roll core to get rid of in the first place, then that’s one less argument to be had.”

The study also found women believe they are often the instigator of arguments - 32% compared to 20% of men.

But they also claim to win most battles too - 47% of women versus 23% as men who think the same.

Sibling rivalry surrounds stealing each other's things - and messing up the Netflix algorithm. (Getty Images)

However, men do admit they could be the cause of some more common household annoyances, as they are twice as likely to leave an empty toilet roll without replacing (23% versus 11%).

And they are also more likely to own up to putting empty food and drink containers back in the cupboard (14% compared to 8%), and leave dirty plates on the side (21% versus 11%).

However, 74% of those polled think trivial disagreements are all part of being in a household with others, and become funny stories after a while.

The spokesman from Essity added: “Cleaning up after yourself, recycling, and a general sense of hygiene will go a long way to maintaining a peaceful and harmonious home life.

“And if there are simple ways to remove the root cause of common arguments then it’s a win-win for everybody.”

TOP 55 COMMON ROWS:

  1. Leaving dirty washing on the floor
  2. Messy bedrooms
  3. Leaving dirty plates next to the dishwasher rather than in it
  4. Emptying the bins but not putting in a new bin bag
  5. Someone leaving all the lights on when they aren't in the room
  6. Leaving the dishes to soak rather than just washing them up
  7. Leaving toilet roll cores on the floor, window sill etc. i.e. anywhere but the bin
  8. Not changing the empty toilet roll when the last of it is used
  9. Leaving recycling next to the bin rather than in it
  10. Leaving wet towels on the floor
  11. Not taking items which have been left on the stairs up when you walk past
  12. Not rinsing out the bath or shower
  13. Someone not flushing the toilet
  14. Someone not doing their fair share of the chores
  15. Someone leaving shoes in the middle of the floor/ in the doorway
  16. Squeezing rubbish into an already full bin rather than emptying it first
  17. Fighting over the TV remote
  18. Not making their bed
  19. Who started the argument
  20. Someone leaving plates and glasses in their bedroom
  21. Gadgets being used at the dinner table
  22. Someone cooking dinner, using every utensil in the kitchen and not washing up as they go
  23. Using up the last of something like the milk/ toilet roll and not saying anything
  24. Someone being too noisy in the morning when everyone else is still asleep
  25. When the heating should come on
  26. Board games, which end in a row
  27. Changing the settings, radio station, seat position etc. in the car
  28. Someone slamming doors
  29. What takeaway to order
  30. Someone hogging the bathroom
  31. Running water downstairs or flushing the toilet while someone is in the shower
  32. Music being played too loud
  33. Who is cooking dinner
  34. Squeezing the toothpaste from the top rather than the bottom
  35. Whose turn it is to put the bins out
  36. Siblings using things belonging to the other without asking
  37. Someone pinching someone else's phone charger
  38. Who left the toilet seat up
  39. Whose turn it is to make the tea/ coffee
  40. What film you should watch as a family
  41. What time children should go to bed
  42. Who ate the last biscuit/ chocolate and put the empty box/ wrapper in the cupboard
  43. Someone being noisy while you are trying to WFH
  44. What time children should come off games consoles
  45. Whose turn it is to load/ unload the dishwasher
  46. Letting unopened post pile up on the kitchen table
  47. Broadband use when someone is trying to make a work video call
  48. What music to play on long car journeys
  49. Who sits in the best spot on the sofa
  50. Someone putting a dark item in a light wash and ruining the clothes
  51. Whose turn it is to use the bathroom in the morning
  52. Sports team rivalries
  53. Watching something on someone else's Netflix profile so it changes all of the recommendations
  54. Ordering on someone's Amazon Prime account
  55. Who sits at the head of the table

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