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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
As told to James Norman

The moment I knew: as we sat on the veranda playing Scrabble, it hit me – I was in love

Ben Graetz and Dion Padan at a boat party in Darwin. Ben is wearing a broad brim sun hat and white Darwin Pride festival T-shirt. Dion is in a sailor hat, a blue button shirt with yellow rubber ducks that is unbuttoned to his navel. They look happy and are holding hands.
‘I remember the other performers looking at me and saying: where did you come from? You make such a cute couple’: Ben Graetz and Dion Padan at a boat party in Darwin in 2020 Photograph: Supplied

In 2015, I moved to Sydney from north Wales in the UK. Sydney had always been my dream destination, but then the Australian immigration rules changed, meaning that to get permanent residency with my skillset as a barber, I’d have to move to Tasmania or the Northern Territory. I decided on Darwin because I feared the weather in Tasmania was too much like British weather. So in 2018, I packed my bags and moved to Darwin without knowing anything about the city.

Ben and I first chatted on Grindr and he was very welcoming, offering to show me around town. He was also very interested in my story – how did this Welsh boy end up living here? He asked if I was going to Darwin Pride.

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