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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
Kerry Cox

The moment I knew: as soon as we parted I realised Hitomi was the one. I waited years to see her again

Hitomi and Kerry Cox at Tokyo Disneyland, circa 1985. Hitomi is wearing an orange blouse, white pants and a sunhat, and Kerry is wearing an off-white button collared shirt, beige slacks and a brown belt
‘ I was becoming very attracted to her kindness, her always-cheerful personality, her lilting voice and laugh. She was beautiful on the inside and out’: Hitomi and Kerry Cox at Tokyo Disneyland, circa 1985 Photograph: Supplied

In my early 20s I quit my job in New Zealand and moved to Sydney to study martial arts. In 1982, after competing in the World Pugilist championships in Hong Kong, I hitchhiked around Japan for a month or so, then headed for Korea via ferry in January 1983. I’d heard air fares were cheap from Korea. No internet back then!

While boarding, I was approached by a very attractive Japanese woman, with limited English, who told me that if I bought one box of bananas and a bottle of Johnnie Walker Black label, I could pay for most of my trip in Korea. These items were very much in demand back then.

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