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Rachael Leggett, Assistant Professor in Psychology, Coventry University

The ick: the psychology of why a romantic partner can suddenly repulse you

The ick can strike without warning. Prostock-studio/Shutterstock

Ever felt a sudden wave of cringe toward someone you were into – all because they wore questionable shoes or chewed a bit too loudly? Congratulations, you’ve caught “the ick”.

That instant flip from attraction to total repulsion is everywhere on TikTok and Instagram, with singletons and couples bonding over the specific, often ridiculous triggers that turned them off. But beyond the viral memes and funny rants, why does our brain sometimes pull the handbrake so fast on an attraction?

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