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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Anita Chaudhuri

The buddy boost: how ‘accountability partners’ make you healthy, happy and more successful

Pace setter … a running buddy can help you go from a jog round the park to a half marathon.
Pace-setter … a running buddy can help you go from a jog round the park to a half marathon. Illustration: Gus Scott/The Guardian

When news emerged that new US Speaker Mike Johnson and his teenage son monitored each other’s pornography intake, the concept of an “accountability partner” was probably unfamiliar to many people. Certainly, the Republican politician hasn’t done much to sell the idea. Rolling Stone magazine, revelling in the “creepy Big Brother-ness” of it all, detailed how the “faith-obsessed” politician used an app called Covenant Eyes. Deployed by churches and missionary groups, it sends out weekly reports flagging up all the potentially nefarious online content consumed by an individual and their appointed sin monitor.

“My accountability partner right now is Jack, my son. He is 17,” Johnson said in a resurfaced news clip from last year. “If anything objectionable comes up, your accountability partner gets an immediate notice.” The mind boggles. For a start, define objectionable? One person’s harmless rap video might be another’s NSFW (not safe for work) nightmare. And where does this level of micro-monitoring end? Today OnlyFans, the mostly pornographic subscriber platform, tomorrow fried chicken Deliveroos and unwise athleisure purchases?

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