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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
Holly Wainwright

Teaching this man to dance the Nutbush, I felt an addictive sense of freedom

Holly and Brent in the early days of their relationship
Holly and Brent in the early days of their relationship Photograph: Holly Wainwright

Sticky floors and the vomit-tinged scent of stale beer. That was the setting when I realised the man I was dating was Someone Serious.

We were on our first weekend away on what the Bridget Jones generation (yes, I am a member) recognise as the relationship milestone of a “minibreak”. But being completely honest, for me it was less of a milestone and more of a test.

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