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The Guardian - US
The Guardian - US
Lifestyle
SE Smith

Taxidermy, skull preservation, maceration: pet owners find new ways to process grief

Ace Tilton Ratcliff holds the skull of their cat, Moxie, in Boynton Beach, Florida.
Ace Tilton Ratcliff holds the skull of their cat, Moxie, in Boynton Beach, Florida. Photograph: Sydney Walsh/The Guardian

Shortly after my cat Mr Bell died, I contacted Angela Kirkpatrick. I needed Mr Bell – a delightful cat famous for his cropped ears and his ongoing feud with the refrigerator – to live on in some way, and I knew Kirkpatrick, a jeweler, could help me do that.

Together, we designed a reliquary ring with Mr Bell’s ashes and hair to commemorate him. The end product was a thin silver band decorated with nasturtium leaves – a nod to the flower-covered house we lived in when I first brought him home – and a yellow stone, through which the hair and ashes are visible. I wear it often, and when it’s not on my hand, it sits in a ring tray next to his urn.

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