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The Guardian - US
The Guardian - US
Health
Adrienne Matei

Taking care of the grandchildren? No, thanks: ‘I love my obligation-free life’

Graphic illustration of woman in chair being poked by young child.
‘Constance loves her three young grandchildren, but is not interested in moving closer to where they live.’ Illustration: Rita Liu/Guardian

Constance fills her days with music. The 77-year-old, who lives in London, studies and performs classical piano. To stay involved with her community, she volunteers with local arts projects, a community garden and an oral history initiative.

After a career working as a mental health professional, what Constance wants from retirement is to continue engaging with causes and passions that matter to her. (Her name has been changed for her privacy.)

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