‘She never says goodbye when she leaves’: the Romanian families separated by migration

‘It’s a trauma and you can see it manifest.’ Illustration: Guardian Design/Anais Mims

Maria’s day runs differently to those of most 11-year-olds. By the time other children in her home town of Târgoviște are still waking up, she’s making sure her grandmother takes her morning pills.

After school, before she starts homework, she helps with cooking and cleaning, and gives her grandmother her treatment again. When her grandmother needs to see a doctor – sometimes across town, sometimes a two-hour bus ride to Bucharest – Maria* is the one who takes her.