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Lifestyle

Sharing the bill and sharing a bed

Woman paying for a meal with a card machine
‘Some of us wouldn’t want to have sex with a man who doesn’t want to recognise a woman’s independence.’ Photograph: Alamy

Scott Galloway needs to move on (Interview, 3 December). He’s a dinosaur if he really thinks that “a woman is not going to have sex with a man who splits the bill with her”. Some of us wouldn’t want to have sex with a man who doesn’t want to recognise a woman’s independence – personal and financial – but wants to pay for them. Catch up, Scott! Plutocrats are a real turn-off. Young men need to know this. The more money a man has, the less attractive he often becomes.
Janet Tomlinson
Andover, Hampshire

• Robin Craig’s story spoke to me (A moment that changed me: My unbearable grief kept growing – until I found solace in a silent community, 3 December). It was very poignant and moving. I have been a Quaker all my life, and I’m glad that Robin has discovered them and found the deep peace helpful in his bereavement process. He refers to “Advices and Queries … a kind of mini‑guide for practising Quakers”. My favourite advice in it is “Live adventurously”. Being a Guardian reader certainly helps me to do this.
Christine Hayes
Wokingham, Berkshire

• If living in No Place (Letters, 2 December) makes its inhabitants feel insignificant, maybe they could up sticks and move to Pity Me, also in County Durham, or, if they are feeling braver, perhaps head for Quaking Houses.
Bridget Cuthbertson
Hexham, Northumberland

• Inaptly named places? Titty Ho in Raunds, Northamptonshire. End of discussion!
Ian Elkington
Bicester, Oxfordshire

• Films set on boats (Letters, 2 December)? The Maggie, surely?
Kevin Bannon
Broadstairs, Kent

• Have an opinion on anything you’ve read in the Guardian today? Please email us your letter and it will be considered for publication in our letters section.

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