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Kaitlin Easton & Chiara Pollock

Scots dad struggled to remember he had a daughter after waking up post-stroke

A Scots dad couldn't remember his six year-old daughter after waking up in hospital following a stroke.

Paul Flaherty suffered a stroke in May of last year and after waking in hospital he struggled to remember the past six years of his life, including the birth of his daughter, Eden, who is now seven years old.

The 48-year-old suddenly took unwell after returning from the barbers as his left arm went numb. He immediately recognised the numbness as a sign of a stroke as his father had suffered from one months earlier, reports the Record.

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Paul desperately grabbed his phone and managed to call his ex-partner and uttered the word "stroke".

He was rushed by ambulance to Glasgow Royal Infirmary before being transferred to the Queen Elizabeth University Hospital.

Paul said: “After the first stroke, I didn’t even know I had a daughter. My dad was talking to me about someone called Eden and I had to ask who Eden was. It was strange to find out I had a daughter, and she was six."

He added: “I was very fortunate that I was treated so quickly. I collapsed on a Saturday morning and within two hours, I’d been in two different hospitals, had CT and MRI scans. Speed made such a difference to my recovery.

“When I was first on the ward, I couldn’t really speak, and I couldn’t move. It was very scary. But within three or four days, the feeling started to come back on my right side. I did some really simple exercises with the physios, and I began to feel a bit of hope because I’d been feeling very down and had given up on myself a little bit.

“My dad had had a small stroke a few months before me. He was 79 and he was in quite a bad way and I didn’t think he was going to pull through. I did some research at that time, so when it happened to me, I did know a little bit about stroke, but it’s a different kettle of fish when it’s you in the hospital bed.”

When he suffered the stroke, Paul was recovering from injuries including a broken ankle and broken bones in his right hand after he was knocked down by someone on an e-scooter just weeks prior.

After being transferred to the QEUH, doctors carried out a procedure called thrombolysis to remove a blood clot in his brain.

Paul was beginning to recover well from the stroke when he later suffered a second one, this affected his speech rather than his mobility. A scan revealed the second stroke had caused some additional damage to his brain.

He said: “I’ve got a seven-year-old daughter, and we go swimming three times a week and I collect her from school, so I am trying to do the usual things. But there are times when it’s been very frustrating.

“I’m not going to give up. I’m going to keep doing what I can. I know how lonely it can be to be recovering from something like this. I had a lot of support, but I can’t imagine how hard it would be for someone who lives alone or doesn’t have anyone to help them out."

Paul's place of work Curia - a global research business in drug development - have now partnered with Chest Heart & Stroke Scotland as their chosen charity for 2023, with a series of fundraising events planned for the year.

Paul said: “I’m so pleased that Curia have chosen Chest Heart & Stroke Scotland because of the work they do for people like me.”

Louise MacLeod, Community, Events and Corporate Fundraiser at Chest, Heart & Stroke Scotland added: “We are delighted that Curia has chosen Chest, Heart & Stroke Scotland to be its charity partner for 2023. The team has already committed to taking part in some fantastic activities to raise money for CHSS.

“The support from our fundraising partners like Curia allows us to provide much-needed services to the one in five people in Scotland living with chest, heart and stroke conditions so that they can live their lives to the full. I am excited to develop our partnership throughout the coming year.”

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