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The Mary Sue
The Mary Sue
Gisselle Hernandez

San Diego woman’s resolution is to go on 1 date a month. Then a 2am Hinge message from ‘Nick’ proves it’s impossible: ‘They just wanna be pen pals’

Millennials and Gen Z were promised meet-cutes. Instead, they got 2 a.m. “u up?” energy from men who treat Hinge like a long-distance pen pal program.

One San Diego woman thought she was setting a wholesome, achievable New Year’s resolution: one real, in-person date per month. Not a situationship. Not a talking stage. An actual date. Fast-forward to late February, and the only thing she’s collected is a 2 a.m. Hinge message from a man named Nick asking to “spontaneously hang out,” as if romance now requires insomnia and zero planning.

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