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The Times of India
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Quote of the day by German philosopher Walter Benjamin: “In the end, we get older, we kill everyone who loves us through the worries we give them, through the troubled tenderness we inspire in them, and the fears we ceaselessly cause.”

Walter Benjamin Anxiety

Some quotes comfort people instantly. Others leave readers unsettled for a while because they touch emotions most people usually avoid discussing openly. This quote by Walter Benjamin belongs firmly in the second category.

It is not a light quote. It does not try to sound motivational or reassuring. In fact, the line almost feels painfully honest the longer somebody sits with it. There is guilt inside it. Love too. Fear. Ageing. Emotional exhaustion. The complicated weight of caring deeply about another human being.

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