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Quote of the Day by Chinese writer Lu Xun: ‘If a man's proposals met with approval, it should encourage him; if they met with opposition, it should make him fight back; but…’ - what silence, rejection and being ignored can teach us about communication, emotional health and the human need to be heard

Sometimes the hardest thing is not being criticized. It is speaking, trying to explain what you believe, or asking for change, and getting absolutely nothing back. No agreement. No argument. Just silence.

That kind of silence can make a person question whether their words mattered at all. For Chinese writer Lu Xun, one of the most powerful forms of human tragedy was not rejection, but the feeling that nobody was listening.

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