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Dinara Luz

People Don’t Obsess Over Degrading Fantasies For The Reason Many Think, Experts Reveal The Real Motive

Being called names or humiliated during intimacy might sound upsetting to some people, but psychologists said it is more common than many realize.

Consensual degradation is a recognized part of B*SM, and experts said it is often misunderstood.

While many assume people who enjoy it have low self-esteem or secretly believe the insults directed at them, psychologists, s*x therapists, and academic researchers said there is no single explanation.

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