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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
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Jackie Bailey

My sister was diagnosed with cancer – and it taught me the meaning of surrender

The image shows hands open and a Muslim woman praying
‘Practices of surrender allow a person to feel wrapped in love, laying down their burdens, being at rest.’ Composite: Getty Images

When I was a kid, my sister’s favourite biblical passage was from the gospel according to Luke. “Suffer little children to come unto me,” Jesus told his disciples, “for of such is the Kingdom of God.”

My sister had been diagnosed with terminal cancer and she understood Jesus to be saying that children like her, who felt pain, would inherit paradise. Her favourite saints were the youthful martyrs – Angela of Fatima, Bernadette of Lourdes, Thérèse of Lisieux, the Little Flower. Every week my parish gathered to pray for my sister and the priest offered up her suffering, everyone’s suffering, all the suffering of the world, to God.

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