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Mum told she has terminal cancer by sobbing doctor while giving birth to baby son

A devastated mum discovered that she had terminal cancer while giving birth after medics dismissed her concerns as 'anxiety'.

Lois Walker, 37, was tragically told that she had stage four cancer when her son Ray was born via Caesarean section back in 2021.

Surgeons found cancer in her ovaries, the lining of her abdomen and lymph nodes during the birth, The Mirror reports.

Prior to her son's birth, the mum-of-three had been experiencing stomach pain for over a year and made several calls to her GP during the Covid-19 lockdown.

She made a number of visits to A&E, only to be given medication for anxiety and told to avoid dairy products.

After having six rounds of chemotherapy and two operations, sadly doctors now say there is no way to stop the cancer.

Lois Walker was diagnosed with terminal cancer when she gave birth (Lois Walker/SWNS)
Lois with her baby Ray and her son Ronny (Lois Walker/SWNS)

Lois said: "It's been absolutely diabolical. They call themselves health professionals, and they're supposed to be giving us care, but that is negligence.

"I just feel like it could have been caught sooner, so I wouldn't have this late diagnosis - and I'm leaving three kids.

"If the NHS does not acknowledge that things need to change then I feel sorry for everybody and anybody."

Lois, a buyer at an engineering firm, first became unwell in June 2020 when she experienced strange bathroom habits and swelling around her diaphragm.

She regularly called doctors at Dove Valley Practice, in Worsbrough, and visited Barnsley Hospital, but was told she may have irritable bowel syndrome.

Lois kept phoning her GP as her symptoms worsened, but the doctors just offered her drugs for hypochondria.

Lois and her partner Dale Wistow with their new born, Ray (Lois Walker/SWNS)
The mum-of-three made 20 calls to her GP and numerous trips to A&E only to be given anxiety meds (Lois Walker/SWNS)

She said: "I was going to the doctors, but I couldn't tell them anything new because it was the same symptoms always, so they treated me with antacids.

"Then, I got told it could be health anxiety, so they put me on citalopram.

"I already suffered from skin cancer, so I said to my doctor, 'You don't think I could have cancer?'" And he said, "Oh no, it's just you getting old and bodies don't work as well."

Lois found out she was pregnant in December 2020, and 14 weeks later she was left in terrible pain following her gender reveals scan.

She said: "I could not deal with this pain, and the further the pregnancy went on, the more excruciating it became. It got to the point where I couldn't walk or eat.

"The doctor said that I weighed the same as I did 12 months ago, and by this time, I was nine months pregnant - and that didn't seem to ring any alarm bells."

After the pain became too much, she finally told doctors that she was prepared to kill herself if they didn't take her concerns seriously.

Dale holding her partner's hand whilst in hospital (Lois Walker/SWNS)
She made numerous trips to A&E only to be given anxiety meds and told to stay away from dairy (Lois Walker/SWNS)

She was admitted to the hospital for pain management where she was given morphine, but again there was no in depth investigation by doctors into what was causing the pain.

Lois added: "Then the final straw was when they had to get the mental health team involved because I said that it had reached the point where I would have to end both our lives, and I feel ashamed to say that."

Lois's doctor then conducted a more thorough probe into her concerns and found a mass behind her womb - leading them to deliver her baby the next day.

And on September 3, 2021, as she went into labour with her third son, Ray, she found out from the doctor treating her that she most likely had cancer.

Lois said: "When they opened me up, he said, 'I thought you said you didn't have any abdominal surgery?' and I said I hadn't.

"That's when I knew something had been found, as they called a few doctors in.

"They just said, basically, that my abdomen was so diseased that they needed to send off some biopsies and I'd have to wait. But I knew anyway.

"The doctor actually grabbed my hand and he cried and he actually said that he'd let me down."

Despite undergoing chemotherapy soon after she got her diagnosis, Lois then found out that her cancer had spread, and it would be terminal.

She said: "My liver had fused to my diaphragm, so that had to be cut back. My bladder had fused to the back of my womb, so that had to be cut back, and all my ovaries had fused.

"Then I had the devastating news that it's also on my bowels, my stomach and my liver. Obviously, that's never good - they're my main organs that I need."

"It's just about a comfortable life for however long I've got left, and that's where we are at the minute."

When asked for comment, a spokesperson from Dove Valley Practice said: "We are sorry to hear Ms Walker's concerns about her care and that she didn't feel listened to.

"We carried out a review of Ms Walker's care and referrals for tests and we shared those findings with her at that time.

"We welcome anyone with concerns about the care they have received with us to get in touch so we can investigate.

"Unfortunately, we cannot comment further due to our duty of confidentiality."

A spokesperson from Barnsley Hospital NHS Foundation Trust added: "Barnsley Hospital is sorry to hear that Ms Walker has concerns about her care.

"We welcome any patient with concerns about the care they have received to get in touch with our Patient Advice and Complaints Team which investigates patient concerns to ensure action is taken in a timely and appropriate manner."

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