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Riley Schnepf

Money and Identity: Why How You Spend Is Tied to Who You Think You Are

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We like to believe we make financial decisions based on logic, need, or long-term goals. But the truth is, our relationship with money runs much deeper than numbers on a spreadsheet. How you spend, save, or even hoard money isn’t just a financial pattern. It’s a reflection of your identity, self-worth, values, and even your childhood conditioning.

In a world that constantly tells us who we should be—successful, stylish, generous, independent—it’s no wonder we often use money to prove ourselves, even when we can’t afford to. Whether it shows up in the shoes you buy, the restaurants you frequent, or the amount you stash away in savings, money is often less about math and more about meaning.

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