Paul Ince wore his 'Guvnor' alias, and all the bravado that came with it, like a badge of honour in his pomp as a midfield gatekeeper.
But when he spotted Ian Wright, sobbing uncontrollably on Wembley's hallowed savannah after a thrilling cameo, Ince's gesture of compassion for a crestfallen opponent was the mark of respect which turned them into “brothers” for life.
Manchester United, still waiting to land their first trophy under Sir Alex Ferguson, were 2-1 up against Crystal Palace in the FA Cup final 33 years ago when Wright – who had made a surprise recovery from a broken leg – sprang from the bench to score twice in a thrilling 3-3 draw. But mixed in his tears was the anguish of a showman who feared his moment had passed, and the former England midfield warrior's simple expression of affinity was an unsung moment of Cup magic.
