Once, my therapist told me that relationships have a higher chance of working well when they are based on truths. Even a single lie can maim it forever, and sometimes, nothing can fix what’s broken, not even love itself.
The original poster (OP) is engaged to her boyfriend, but she recently found out that he is still legally married to his wife. When she confronted him, he claimed that he “forgot” about it, which completely horrified her. After she vented online, folks couldn’t help but point out that this was all a big red flag!
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