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Health
Madeleine Aggeler

‘Let them’: can this viral self-help mantra change your life?

Mel Robbins
Woman at coffee shop waving hand and looking away from person sitting next to her
Every time you are about to start obsessing over someone else’s actions, remember: let them! Composite: The Guardian/Getty Images

Is there anything more frustrating than other people?

Despite our best efforts to persuade them to do, say and be what we want, they persist in upending our plans by making their own decisions, being their own people and thinking their own thoughts.

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