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The Economic Times
The Economic Times
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Japanese proverb of the day: “To ask is a moment's shame; not to ask is a lifetime's shame” — a timeless lesson that reminds us that a moment of embarrassment is far better than staying silent and living with uncertainty, as asking questions helps us gain knowledge, clarity and confidence

We have all done it at some point. Someone is explaining something, you are not completely following what they are saying, but you nod anyway. The opportunity to ask a question passes because asking would mean admitting that you did not understand, and that can feel embarrassing. So you stay silent and hope the missing piece will somehow become clear later. But the gap in your knowledge does not simply disappear. It stays quietly in the background, waiting for the moment when it can create confusion or cause a mistake. An old Japanese proverb captures this very human trap perfectly. Asking may cost you one uncomfortable moment, but refusing to ask can leave you with the same uncertainty for years.

Japanese proverb of the day: “To ask is a moment's shame; not to ask is a lifetime's shame.”

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