‘It’s the first thing we set up’: parents on everything you need for camping with kids – and what you don’t

Illuminating experience: Matt Collins’s six-year-old using a camping lantern at Holden Farm, Hampshire. Photograph: Matt Collins/The Guardian

I have wholehearted respect for parents who recoil from any notion of family camping. Camping with kids is no picnic. In fact, it sets out from where a good picnic leaves off, venturing from the brevity and civility of a blanket on the grass into the uncertain – and certainly precarious – waters of soggy towels, tangled guyropes, cramped quarters and midnight meltdowns.

And yet a great many of us voyage these waters regardless, ardently asserting (to ourselves as much as others) that camping is good for the soul, for the imagination, and for instilling a foundational appreciation of the great outdoors.