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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
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Alfie Packham and Guardian readers

‘It broke my heart’: the mixtapes that changed your lives

The Beastie Boys.
‘I remember rewinding endlessly’ … The Beastie Boys. Photograph: Mario Anzuoni/REUTERS

‘I’ve been making mix tapes for her ever since’

It was 2005, and I had just started going out with a girl who was way out of my league. I called on an old trick – the mixtape. Having been a music nerd all my life, I decided I could use some help from Miles Davis, Cinematic Orchestra, Stereolab and more to woo her. Making the perfect mixtape is an art form. You have to start strong, but you don’t want to cram all the best bits into the first 10 minutes. I needed to show myself as a man of the world – some more obscure choices, a bit of jazz. I sequenced them so they all flowed together nicely, and all this was done in an era where I had to rip the tracks from CDs. And in a final touch, I had to put in a track from a band that were playing very shortly – in this case, The Go! Team! – so I could invite her to the gig.

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