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Ammar Kalia

I yearned for my mother, but I settled for the next best thing: her home

Ammar Kalia at his family home in 2020.
Ammar Kalia at his family home in 2020. Photograph: Courtesy of Ammar Kalia

The family home isn’t typically something you quit. The leaving is brought upon you. It is a right of passage to make your own way in the world when the time comes – or when your parents kick you out.

Growing up, my parents never forced me and my older brother out of our bungalow in Hounslow, but we weren’t encouraged to live there for ever either. Accordingly, when my older brother turned 18, he went off to university and never moved back.

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