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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Annalisa Barbieri

I was brought up in an abusive family. Should I cut them off?

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I’m going through prolonged issues that have churned up painful memories of my childhood and adulthood. It’s difficult to know how to go on, as my daughter is getting older and I want to be strong and supportive for her.

I sought counselling and was told to never see or speak to my family again. It sounds easy, but I’m drawn to them like a drug habit. I know they are bad for my health, but I continue to attend family gatherings and invite siblings or parents to mine.

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