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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
As told to Katie Strick

I see time as a grid in my mind. I remember the birthdays of friends I haven’t seen for 65 years

Judy Stokes stands in front of a jetty over calm blue water
‘I’d mentioned to a friend that Tuesdays were yellow’: Judy Stokes has calendar and spatial synaesthesia. Photograph: Liz Ham/The Guardian

Did someone with spatial-sequence synaesthesia design the calendar app on mobile phones? Because that’s how time and dates look in my brain. If you say a date to me, that day appears in a grid diagram in my head, and it shows if that box is already imprinted with a holiday, event or someone’s birthday. Public holidays and special events like Christmas and Easter are already imprinted for the year, and the diagram goes backwards to about 100,000BC and then forwards all the way to about the year 2500 before tapering off.

It was only in my 60s that I discovered there was a name for this phenomenon – not just the way time appears in this 3D sort of calendar pattern, but the colours seen when I think of certain words. Two decades previously, I’d mentioned to a friend that Tuesdays were yellow and she’d looked at me in the same strange, befuddled way that family members always had when told about the calendar in my head. Out of embarrassment, it was never discussed further. I was clearly very odd.

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