A writer who makes a fortune telling erotic tales online has shared what words to use to turn a man on and the fantasies that help in her own bedroom. Lizette Reynoso spends her days dreaming up stories for her books and moonlights on OnlyFans, where she gets fans hot under the collar through her writing.
The 36-year-old first launched her account a little over a year ago as a way to spice things up with her husband Omar, 41. But while chatting to men online, which she insists her partner doesn’t have an issue with, the author got an idea: "Why not enjoy a little dirty talk?"
“The idea to start my account came one day when my husband and I were taking photos of each other for fun,” the model, who has over 78,000 followers on Instagram (@amor.next.door) she said. “I was surprised by how much fun we both had with it.
“Then he joked that I should start an OnlyFans account and we both went silent, it just felt right. I didn’t make much for the first two months but then I decided to be myself and write about fantasies and ended up making £1,250 from just one fan.
“I began reading and writing erotica as a teenager. Having grown up in a strict Catholic home, this was my way of learning about and exploring my sexuality.
“Then, after I got married, I would write stories for my husband and he loved them – it helped us stay connected while he was away on business. Omar and I also read stories to each other in bed and then reenact the scenes.
“It’s like our own sexy book club.”
From ‘everyday’ fantasies to out-of-this-world scenes about vampires, spies and Star Wars or Star Trek characters, the sky is the limit when it comes to content ideas. Lizette said: “It can be everyday scenarios that run wild with fantasy.
“Like co-workers on a business trip, a sales girl in a sex shop who takes a customer into the changing room for a romp or two women who meet at a bar and end up fulfilling their deepest desires, or a male groupie who gets seduced by a female musician, to name a few. Many of my fans enjoy writing too, we’ll send stories back and forth to each other – I love what they come up with.”
Lizette says her family and friends weren’t all that surprised by her new career but she keeps the details private from her Catholic mum. She said: “My mother knew I’d done nude modelling in the past, so she wasn’t that taken aback.
“She doesn’t ask too many questions about it and out of respect for her religious beliefs, I don’t offer too many details. Other than that, I have only recently told my inner circle and they have all been supportive.”
Lizette, who first met Omar seven years ago, says the couple take it in turns to plan erotic Valentine’s Day activities – this year, it’s her turn. She said: “I plan on taking him to his favourite restaurant, then on a treasure hunt around the city. If he guesses all the clues correctly, it will lead him to our favourite sex shop where he will pick out the outfit he wants me to wear at home later that night.”
For Valentine’s Day, the OnlyFans model recommends more women take the time to be adventurous with themselves and their partners. To help them along, she has taken to social media to share her favourite phrases to seduce a man – and why it works.
FACT BOX: TOP FIVE WORDS AND PHRASES MEN WANT TO HEAR IN BED
Lizette shares the most popular phrases and words to turn men on in the bedroom – including
SAY HIS NAME
”One of the main things that men want to hear is their name. This makes perfect sense to me because it’s intimate and shows that you are present with them in the moment.”
TALK ABOUT THEIR PENIS
“Using words that compliment and show enjoyment, these are all great for sexy stories and sensual communication.
“Words that show a sense of urgency (now, ready, can’t wait, need) are also important.”
It highlights desire and passion and who doesn’t want to be desired?
TELL THEM HOW GOOD THEY ARE
“Telling men how much you enjoy something that they’re doing (that feels so good) always works well.”
4GIVE DIRECTIONS
Tell them what you want or imagine them doing to you and vice versa.
“I think men like to hear about a woman who is confident in her body and not afraid to enjoy it. They like it when a woman tells them what she wants. Being direct and expressive is a big one.
“Men also enjoy a sense of playfulness in women, though this often works better in person. Such as saying ‘come and get me’ and jumping on the bed or doing a strip tease.
SHOW YOUR DELIGHT
“Exclamations of delight are pretty classic. I also love asking questions like, ‘Can you guess what I’m wearing today?’
“It gets the imagination going while building anticipation for more.”
