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The Guardian - US
The Guardian - US
World
Alissa Quart

I’m part of the triple-decker sandwich generation. You probably are as well

illustration of two children holding up two pieces of bread between mother
‘Childcare, eldercare and a new layer of bread are baked out of our current economic and political crises.’ Illustration: Ulises Mendicutty/The Guardian

It was a crisp autumn day, but I had been trapped inside for hours, breathing the cold air of one of Memorial Sloan Kettering’s cancer centers with my mom. We were waiting for her latest infusion to finish dripping.

Time in hospitals moves differently – minutes stretch and lose their meaning. Meanwhile, my daughter kept calling. Would I be able to go to her school volleyball game? After a few calls, I had to break it to her: the answer was no.

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