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Anna Mathur MBACP Accred

"I'm ghosting my own mother" - psychotherapist reveals the 5 most common grandparenting 'fails' (plus how to deal with them)

Older lady with cropped silver hair lifting a toddler above her head.

Let’s talk grandparents. Not everyone has their parents involved in their kid's life, but many do and this can throw up all kinds of conversations, tricky dynamics and a mix of feelings.

We are told that it takes a village to raise a child, but what happens when those in your ‘village’ are somehow adding to, rather than easing the mental load of parenting? Or unintenionally making your days - especially as new mother's navigating matrescence - that little but longer and harder? Family relationships are rarely completely smooth sailing. While research shows that children having good relationships with their grandparents have fewer behavioural and emotional problems - at what cost? What do you do when you feel like your parenting is being judged or undermined by your own parents?

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