Get all your news in one place.
100's of premium titles.
One app.
Start reading
The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Elle Hunt

‘I earn £2m – my partner £20k. It’s a bit ridiculous’: the truth about wealth-gap relationships

Illustration of floats shaped like dollar bills in a swimming pool, with a man in trunks and sunglasses lying back on one of them, and a woman wearing swimming goggles in the water nearby
‘You can’t have one side of the partnership wanting to live a different lifestyle.’ Illustration: Pablo Caracol/The Guardian

Jane’s first clue that her new boyfriend was rich was the swimming pool at his family home. Her second clue was the other pool indoors. Jane met Tim at university in the mid-80s. She had heard whispers that his father was a celebrity, but she didn’t recognise the name.

“I was completely oblivious,” says Jane, now 57. As she and Tim continued spending time together, their differences emerged, along with their similarities. They had both been privately educated but, while Jane had had a subsidised place, Tim talked about going on family skiing holidays and having a boat.

Sign up to read this article
Read news from 100's of titles, curated specifically for you.
Already a member? Sign in here
Related Stories
Top stories on inkl right now
One subscription that gives you access to news from hundreds of sites
Already a member? Sign in here
Our Picks
Fourteen days free
Download the app
One app. One membership.
100+ trusted global sources.