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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
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Robyn Vinter

‘I’d try to hide it as best I could’: a UK man on his struggle with porn addiction

Addiction
Lennard poses looking off camera
Ben Lennard: ‘It can very badly ruin your mental health.’ Photograph: Andy Hall/The Guardian

Ben Lennard would make jokes with his friends about pornography, the kind of banter men in their mid-20s often share.

But in hindsight, he understands the humour was a deflection tool to mask a problem that was destroying his life.

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