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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Lizzie Cernik

How we met: ‘She took me to my first nightclub. I thought it was the coolest thing ever’

Two young women, one wearing graduation gown and mortarboard, smile at the camera
Adriana (left) and Kathlina at the University of Texas at Austin in 2022. Photograph: Supplied image

As a college freshman in the autumn of 2015, Kathlina was excited about what lay ahead. “I was studying political science and Spanish in Jacksonville, Florida, and I was having a great time meeting people,” she says. She soon struck up a friendship with a man in one of her classes and began joining him and his friends at campus events. “I was dating my childhood sweetheart from home, so I definitely wasn’t looking for a relationship, but I was keen to meet new people,” she says.

One day, she was invited to her new friend’s apartment, where she met his girlfriend, Adriana. “She was in her third year studying psychology and I thought she was a bit intimidating because she was a senior,” says Kathlina. Adriana admits she was “frosty” at first. “Kathlina was so pretty and smart; I felt a bit threatened,” she says. “I wasn’t a very secure person at the time.”

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