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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Lizzie Cernik

How we met: ‘One of my friends said: “Dave fancies you!” I said: “Oh God”’

Jill and Dave in 2012
‘Eventually I realised I did like him’ … Jill and Dave in 2012 Photograph: Handout undefined

In 1973, when Jill discovered that Dave had a crush on her, she was less than impressed. They had met at art college in Leicester the year before, but she had never considered a romantic relationship with him. “The first time we spoke was when he barged into a conversation I was having to ask if I knew of any rooms going,” she says. Although they had mutual friends, it was a while before they got to know each other.

The next year, she bumped into him at the college library. “He was very insistent that I come to his 21st birthday party,” she says. “While I was there, one of my friends came over and said: ‘Dave fancies you.’ My response was: ‘Oh God.’ I just didn’t fancy him at all.” Not wishing to be rude, she agreed to meet him for a coffee. “I definitely fancied her,” Dave says. “I liked the way she looked and dressed and I found her funny. We liked similar art and music as well.”

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