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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Lizzie Cernik

How we met: ‘My sister suggested I try going on the radio to find a date’

‘At first I was worried it wouldn’t work because he was a few years younger than me,’ says Toni, pictured with Ron last year.
‘At first I was worried it wouldn’t work because he was a few years younger than me,’ says Toni, pictured with Ron last year. Photograph: Image supplied by reader

In 1986, Toni was working as a clinical laboratory director in St Louis, Missouri. “I was single at the time and keen to meet someone,” she says. One Friday night, she and a friend were listening to the area’s flagship radio station KMOX, which hosted a show called Dateline. “The idea was that single people called in, shared a bit about themselves, and listeners could contact the radio station for their details afterwards,” says Toni. She made a bet with her friend that she would call one of the men from the show. “At the time, it wasn’t the thing to do,” she laughs. “Internet dating didn’t exist back then and a lot of strange people would call into that show. But we thought it would be a funny story to tell if I gave it a go.”

She had vetoed lots of callers before Ron came on the show at the end of the night. He had recently moved from North Carolina to a nearby town to work for a medical technology company, and was keen to meet new people. “My sister suggested I try going on the radio to find a date,” he says. “Now I’m used to public speaking, but at the time I was very scared. [The station] gave you guidelines on how to introduce yourself and I was on air for about a minute.”

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