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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Lizzie Cernik

How we met: ‘My family wanted an arranged marriage, but I couldn’t bear the idea’

‘I wanted to choose life for myself’ … Namerah (right) with Farhan.
‘I wanted to choose life for myself’ … Namerah (right) with Farhan. Photograph: Handout

After growing up in Saudi Arabia, Namerah moved to Kuala Lumpur to study for her A-levels in 2014. “I’m from a Pakistani family and had a very strict upbringing where men and women were always segregated,” she says. “I would have to ask my dad or brothers to take me out if I wanted to leave the house.”

When she was sent to Malaysia, it opened her eyes to a new world. “I loved having freedom, like making friends and doing mundane things like buying my own groceries and riding the train. It was the first time I went out alone.”

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