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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
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Lizzie Cernik

How we met: ‘It was illegal to be gay in the military, so it was very hard for us’

Scott (left) and Herb visiting Frank Lloyd Wright’s home and studio in Oak Park, Illinois
‘I love how attentive he is’ … Scott (left) and Herb at Frank Lloyd Wright’s home in Oak Park, Illinois, this year. Photograph: Supplied image

After finishing high school in 1983, Herb couldn’t afford the college education he had dreamed of. Instead, he joined the US air force, because they offered an educational assistance programme to help with costs. “I also thought it would be good to get some discipline and direction,” says Herb.

Stationed at a base in Michigan, he started work in the mailroom. The year after, he began to get to know Scott, who had also joined the air force after leaving school. “My cousin had talked me into it,” says Scott. As an administrative clerk, Scott regularly found himself in the mailroom, chatting to Herb.

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