Are you a "grown-up" who has finished their education, is growing financially and also think you make a reasonable romantic partner? Are you also the same "grown-up" who still can't make any major decisions and choices (or maybe even the everyday, minor ones) without the permission of your parents?
Whether it is your career, sexual orientation, who you will marry, when you will marry, whether you'll marry or not, have kids or not, go on a trip, whether you can drink alcohol, wear that short dress or even who you choose as your friends!